Summer Bucket List

 

We made a Summer Bucket List so that we could be sure to include a few of everyone's favorites in our summertime activities.

 

Here are the goals my kids and I came up with:

 

Do the Library Summer Program

Ali-Go to Pioneer School at the museum for a week

Josiah and I-10th Anniversary getaway trip

Visit the local museum

Have some friends and their families over for dinner

Visit some parks we've never been to before

Ride Boppa's horses

Make a water sensory blob

Go on family bikes rides

Draw with sidewalk chalk

Hike

Swim in the backyard pool almost every day

Visit Yellowstone with Josiah's parents

KK-play with Abigail and "Emmy" her friends

Do a Family Movie Night

Summer matinee movies at the theater for $1

Go to the park in Thermopolis and have ice-cream with cousins

Go to the Circus

Go swimming at the local pool

Justus-have a family birthday party in August

Celebrate Daddy's big 30th birthday with a BBQ party

Attend a couple of Vacation Bible Schools

Host a 5-Day Club and help feed the teen missionaries

Lake Days with friends

4th of July fun--picnics, fireworks, parade, rodeo, etc.

Camp a couple of times as a family

Attend Lego Club (Ali) and Jr. Lego Club (the boys) at the library

Eat lots of ice-cream

Lots of hanging out with friends

Attend the weekly church sport's nights/fellowship nights when we can

Playdates with Ansley, CC and Diana, Heidi, Eli, Carston, and Dylan

Attend Gold Rush Days at South Pass City

Have lots of leisure time for fun in the sun and relaxing

 

 

 

The MOST IMPORTANT goal of our summer is to get into the Word of God.  No matter who you are or what your responsibilities, it is always a fight to make God's Word a priority and you have to make the time or it won't happen.  I have seen how easily even church activities and homeschool studies can crowd out family Bible time.  So....here is what our family is doing to make sure that doesn't happen.  If nothing else happens on our Summer Bucket List, I want to make sure that this stuff happens:

 

We are continuing to listen to Daddy read to them from the Bible every night

 

Having morning devotional time with Mom (Going through Thriving Family magazines' 60 Day Trip around the World praying for the nations)

 

Memorizing the ABC verses (26 verses printable I found online)

 

Ali and I:  Mother/Daughter tea time Bible Study every Friday morning

 

Me-weekly Bible Study that my mom leads in the summer-this summer we're doing "Having a Mary Spirit" by Joanna Weaver.

 

Take the kids to 5-Day Club, as well as church and Sunday School

 

Ali-personal Quiet Time once a day where she is looking up Bible verses for our study

 

 

Educational Goals:

 

Ali and Jer:  Read/listen to books for 1,200 minutes during the month of the library program challenge

 

Justus and KK:  listen to 600 minutes of stories

 

Ali and Jer: 1-2 pages of Math each weekday

 

Ali:  Learn cursive, do 1-2 pages in cursive workbook copying Scripture

 

Jer:  Practice handwriting, reading, and writing for 10-20 minutes a day

 

Ali and Jer-taking a free, 3-day class at the library in June called Word Play

 

Ali and Jer--taking a free, 3-day class at the library in July called Let's Pretend

 

Working on their Nature Notebooks (which they love) as we explore God's creation

 

Make a Gold Rush Days lapbook

 

Make a lapbook of their choice

 

Read alouds:

 

The Secret at Pheasant Cottage and Rainbow Garden

by Patricia St. John

 

Start the Christian Heritage series by Nancy Rue

 

 

Me-attend a practicum (training) for Classical Conversations in Casper, WY

 

Me-prepare to be a CC Tutor for the coming school year

 

 

Summer Chores:

 

Morning routine after breakfast:

Brush teeth

Make beds

Straighten Rooms

Help Mom with a household chore

 

Afternoon clean-up time before Daddy comes home

 

Sometimes the big kids help Grammy rake her yard or help her water the community garden, where she works part-time, and get paid to do odd jobs for her.

 

I'd like to have my kids help more with laundry, dishes, and cooking.  Lately they've been pretty spoiled and haven't helped a lot in those areas!  Ali often cleans like crazy just to bless me and she cleans the kids' bathroom 2-3 times a week, but my boys NEED to work harder and learn to do more of the chores.

 

 

So, this is our roadmap for the summer.  It may look like a LOT of things to do to some of you, and to others it may seem really low-key.  Every family is different!  My kids happen to be REALLY high-energy kids who love social activities and sports.  We live in a small town, that's very outdoorsy, and we can get to where we need to go within a minute or two.  So, I think we have a great balance of calm and rest and fun and energy-burning activities!

 

 

Father's Day

 

Josiah is an exceptional daddy!  He definitely deserved to be spoiled on Father's Day.

We celebrated the night before Father's Day with a family dinner of his choice (corn dogs, french fries, waffle fries, buffalo wings, chips and salsa, etc.) and he taught me to play Disc Golf, one of his new favorite sports, while the kids ran along behind us.  It was a fun evening!

 

On Father's Day evening we went to my parent's house to celebrate with my dad.  Josiah was gone on a downhill mountain-biking ride he'd planned for several of the men and teen guys in our church.  I brought homemade apple pie and coffee smoothies, two things my dad really likes.

 

I've been waiting over a year to be able to do a card like this with the 2-4-6-8 theme.  Using lots of duct tape (the perfect addition to a man's card), we made one of these cards for each of the grandpas and Daddy too.  The kids stamped their handprints on the back of the cardstock behind their photo, and they signed their names next to their handprint.

 

The kids biked around the pasture while Boppa watched.

 

Josiah got home before dark from his wild 3-hour ride down the mountain, and wasn't too tired to goof off with the kids a bit.

 

A huge milestone in KK's life!  She has normally been very afraid of guys, especially men with mustaches.  Though Boppa has tried for 2 years to win her over, constantly supplying her with chocolate treats, she would never let him hold her.  On Father's Day, she allowed him to hold her, kiss her, and she even gave him a kiss!  Hurray!

 

 

Father's Day wouldn't be complete without some shooting!  My brothers used to chase each other around wildly shooting the nerf bows.

 

 

 

KK sits on a log, pretending to ride a horsey.  My dad and hubby are building

another log cabin for someone this summer.

 

 

They peel the logs by hand!  (In case you're wondering, my dad wears copper bracelets on his wrist, and has for years, because they help his wrists feel better!)

 

 

The family athlete becomes a "log walker" and spent an hour just balancing on the logs.

He did manage, as usual, to get a bloody nose when he pushed his sister in the swing and didn't get out of the way in time, and he also ended up slipping a few times and straddling the log hard!

 

 

My kids' Daddy has modeled a love for sports for them, especially biking, but most importantly, he takes time every day to teach them about the Lord, read the Bible to them, pray with them, and give them lots of hugs and love!

I'm so thankful for him and also for a Dad who raised me in the Truth!

Thirty-One

Last fall I discovered Thirty-One.  Maybe some of you have been buying it for a while, but here in Wyoming, I think it's an understatement to say, "We're behind the times."

 

 

I love Thirty-One so much that my friends all think I should sell it.   However, I hate doing sales work and would rather just support my cousin who sells it rather than sell it myself.  My cousin teases me about the number of totes I own and the amount of stuff I'm currently drooling over but ultimately she loves my business! =) I did host a party for her, via Skype, since she lives in another state.  I was sure I would barely make the minimum sales perk and would get $20 of free credit at the most.  Little did I know that Thirty-One sells itself!  My party went to $800 in no time (even though only 3 friends were able to attend--many friends ordered online) and I got 2 half-price items, over $100 in free products, and some hostess exclusives.  And don't even get me started on their yearly 70% off sale!  I have to hold myself back....it's the most exciting clearance of my year!  I also look for Thirty-One used.  When a friend stopped selling it, she sold a lot of her items for half-price on the local Mom's Swap page.

 

 

While you can be an organized woman, a prepared mommy, and a homeschooler without Thirty-One.....this stuff definitely makes it easier!  I'll give you a tour of some of my favorite bags.

 

 

 

The large utility tote is the perfect library book bag for a "homeschooler's load."  Between trips to and from the library, it keeps the books together and tidy on our homeschool table.  How many bags can boast that they are large enough to hold a homeschool family's library books?

 

 

The organizing utility tote is WONDERFUL for my cleaning supplies.  I leave it in the back of my van so I'm always ready to go for my cleaning jobs that I do on Friday afternoons.  I got this for half-price from my friend.  These bags are far easier to move from room to room when you are cleaning than a bulky plastic cleaning caddy.

 

Got this $30 organizing utility tote for $10 from the Thirty-One clearance sale.  I've never had a better park bag that keeps 6 or 7 water bottles/smoothies upright and not leaking all over.  Love the organizing utility tote!

 

My other large utility tote is great for fetching my Bountiful Basket each week, holds tons of groceries, makes a great beach bag, and holds a lot for weekend trips/camping.  I often take this to church loaded with junk to give to other people and inevitably it's full by the time we get home.  The only bag that really holds a 6-person-family's stuff when you go somewhere!

 

Because I turned 31 this year and I love the company Thirty-One sooooo much, I thought it would be criminal to buy anything else with my birthday money this year.  I was glad to be able to score the weekender bag in my favorite print for half-price.

 

For hosting a party, I got this hostess exclusive, a camera backpack, with a matching water bottle thermal.  It has made my photo shoots easier and keeps all of my camera gear handy on hikes and trips.  I use the water bottle thermal every day!  It keeps my water nice and cool on hot summer days.

 

 

Got this for 1/4 of the original price on the clearance sale!

 

I use my thermal totes nearly every day.  We picnic/hike/bike a lot and the small one is great for quick snacks for church and soccer games and the larger one holds enough food for the whole clan.

 

I got this one for 1/3 of the original price from a friend who used to sell Thirty-One.

 

My mom wanted some Thirty-One so for Mother's Day I gave her a couple of my older pieces, since she liked the colors a lot, and upgraded to this pretty turquoise bag.  So now, my mom has the black polka-dot organizing utility tote and I use this as my park bag!

 

I got this free with my hostess credit.  It keeps our homeschool area neat and I can find everything quickly.

 

I got this little pouch for my first-aid kit and bug balm.  I have to get into this thing DAILY... unfortunately....sometimes even 3 or 4 times a day!  My boys are not careful!  But looking at the cute pictures helps the screaming child calm down while I bandage them up!

 

 

I'm not being paid or rewarded for promoting Thirty-One.  I just love it....(in case you couldn't tell already)!!!  This month is the only month they are offering the Large Utility Tote in the adorable flip-flop print.  If you spend $31 or more you get a Large Utility Tote for $10.  Go in with a friend and each of you could get a Large Utility Tote for $26, including tax and shipping!

Don't have a Thirty-One consultant already?  No matter where you live, you can order from my cousin Hallie in MN here: 

https://www.mythirtyone.com/224575/

 

"That" Kid

 

 

Most of us have at least one kid who is "that" kid.  The kid who pushes your buttons...oh...every 5 seconds or so and seems to have an unearthly talent for embarrassing you and/or getting into scrapes or life-threatening situations.

 

Though Alathia was a very strong-willed and difficult toddler, she quickly matured and became Mama's big helper and a very obedient little girl.  Jer went through a stubborn phase as a pre-schooler but is back to being compliant and sensitive.  Now, in the wake of his siblings' budding maturity, Justus has taken it up on himself to make sure that Mama's job is exhausting, hard, incredibly frustrating....a challenge.

 

My dad calls Justus "Dennis."  While I don't like the idea of giving kids negative nicknames so that they become like that word/identity or have lifelong emotional scars, I have to say that the resemblance is uncanny between the two.  We recently watched some old Dennis the Menace movies and the little blonde guy in the movie is exactly like our Justus.  Justus is cheerful, positive, curious, cute, and very smart just like Dennis but without intending to get into trouble, it follows him everywhere like there is a magnetic force within his body that attracts it. 

 

 

For example:  We go to the ice-cream parlor as a family one hot summer evening.  Jer accidentally spills a little slush on Justus, and so he asks to be cleaned up.  Just when we get that mess cleaned up, Justus spills a huge amount of slushy all over the ice-cream parlor floor, causing the waitress to have to get out the broom and dustpan.  Poor gal!  Then he needs a wet wipe for the table and goes to get one from the lady at the counter.  But one isn't enough.  He needs more napkins for the drips all over him.  Then he comes back to his seat and realizes that when you bite styrofoam, it causes a hole!  Go figure!  His slushy is dripping out of the bottom of his cup.  Meaning...he has to bug the waitress YET AGAIN for a second cup to put on his leaking slushy.  Upon arriving home, he left the last remaining 1/5 of his slushy on the wooden cutting board, where even in a double cup, it leaked all over the counter and floor that night unbeknownst to us until the morning.

 

Sigh.  This is just an example of 20 minutes with Justus and his unintentional mischief.  Throw in deliberate disobedience, like his frequent hitting of his little sister, his refusing to come out of the closet for his Sunday School teacher, and his escaping from the pastor's wife during Children's Church and roaming through the church during the sermon for 200 people to observe and you have an immediate trip on the Humble Express.  And then there is his sticking the craft down his pants at library storytime and dancing around looking horribly inappropriate, his numerous brushes with death, his glass-shattering screaming, his endless bruises and scrapes in a day, and his swinging a belt around and causing a gushing wound on his brother's head, and you wonder if you will survive parenting him to adulthood.  When one is in charge of keeping him alive and out of trouble for 13 hours every day, all day, it leaves one a very worn-out Mama. 

 

 

I was so blessed by a paragraph in Kari Patterson's book "Plenty:  31 Sips of Joy for Moms Everywhere."  (I've really enjoyed her little book, which I got free on my Kindle.)  In Chapter 8, entitled, "When You're Struggling..." pastor's wife, author, speaker, and blogger Kari writes:

 

I felt like going to a therapy meeting and saying, "Hi, I'm Kari, and yes, my son is "that kid."  Why this Lord?  I'm busting my tail at parenting.  I read all the books, try all the methods, pray pray pray.  I study the Word, teach him Bible verses, I spend all day with him.  This is humiliating and I feel like everyone's an expert on this except me.....I don't want to be the mom of the bad kid!"

 

She goes on to talk about how God spoke to her through a children's Bible story about Naaman.  Naaman wanted healing, but was too proud to lower himself to dip into the dirty Jordan river.  Kari saw Naaman in herself.  She said, "How many times had I prayed, "God heal me of my pride.  God sanctify me.  God grant me humility.  God grant me a teachable spirit.  God help me connect with the real needs of women around me.  God help me grow in maturity and wisdom.  God reveal areas that are sinful that need your touch.  God heal me of my selfishness, heal me of my insecurity, heal me of myself."

 

He answered:  Go wash in the Jordan.

Go wash in the murky, stinky waters of a toddler's rebellion and embarrassing misbehavior.  Go wash in the murky waters of trial and error, charting unknown waters, trying new things that often don't work.  Go wash in the waters of humility, in the waters of asking others for help, in the waters of exhausting reptition and consistency.  Go wash in the waters of faith and not of sight.

 

"But Lord!  I'd rather wash in the crystal clean waters of Bible Study.  I'd like to grow in my sanctification by..hmm..how about blogging?......But these waters?  These are stinky, smelly, and humiliating."

 

Like Naaman, I finally surrendered to the stinky waters of struggle. 

When the word of criticism stings:  Go wash.

When you have "that kid:" Go wash. 

Whatever is stinky and smelly in your life may actually be the means of your salvation.

 

 

 

So, here I am, in the "Jordan" with Justy.  I know he's a special kid.  He has more charisma than anyone in our family.  He'll undoubtedly be the most popular as a teenager, and will likely be a leader amongst his peers and a dangerous man of God.  I can be thankful that he's continually bringing me to my knees...for there is no better place to be!

Nature Hike

My kids have extreme amounts of energy.  One way to help them burn it off is to take them to the canyon 10 minutes from our home for a picnic, a hike, and some time on the playground there.

 

 

 

 

I didn't get very many pictures of the trees, mountains, and wildflowers, due to the fact that lil' Katri, who feels like she's made of lead, wanted to be carried for half of the hike, and I was fairly preoccupied keeping Justus from getting too close to the river.  It was a fun day in God's creation, with the company of wonderful friends.

 

Sweet Summer Moments

 

The kids and some of their friends enjoying a water sensory blob we made last week.

Thank you Pinterest!

 

It's that time of year again!  The pool is up now for all-day use!

 

Katri bonding with a new little buddy, Emory, during church soccer night. 

Every Monday night in the summer is a sport-themed church

fellowship night.

 

Little J, proud of his flips and cartwheels, on the soccer field.

 

Ice-cream cones to help beat the heat!

 

Sisters blowing bubbles.

 

Tea parties and dress ups.

 

Whirling together!

 

A Kool-Aid stand to earn some cash.

 

Slip and slide on "the blob"

 

Making baking soda bombs in ziploc bags.

 

Lots and lots of joyous splashing!